EPISODE · Sep 27, 2025 · 1H 12M
1234 - Kink and Fetishes Explained w/the The Kink Consultant, Amanda Dames
from Strictly Anonymous Confessions · host Kathy Kay
The Kink Consultant, Amanda Dames, called in to discuss kinks and fetishes and how she helps people work with them. Tune in to hear her discuss the different ways she works with couples as well as singles, the difference between a kink and a fetish, her fetish and how it has gotten in the way of her relationships, how and why sex is important in a relationship, how guys can explain their fetish to their partners and why its important to maintain a balance when it comes to your requests, where to meet fellow kinky people, how she advises people to get onto the lifestyle and how she vets places for them to try out, how and why she helps people choreograph scenes ahead of time during a session, why sex clubs aren’t great place to go to meet someone, apps that are preferable, how and why munches as well as national fetish parties are great way to meet like minded others, how she helps people both in person and online and how the sessions are set up plus a whole lot more. You can find all her courses here: https://www.amandadames.com/store **To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [email protected] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://vb.health To get 10% off Drive Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY https://beducate.me/pd2528-anonymous Use code: ANONYMOUS to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14-day money-back guarantee https://uberlube.com/discount/Strictly Use code: STRICTLY for 10% off Uberlube aka the BEST Lube EVER https://bluechew.com Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON https://viia.co/STRICTLYANON Try VIIA and use code STRICTLYANON for great SEX and sleep https://butterwellness.com/ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order To get $15 OFF your female oxytocin arousal tablets and more, use code STRICTLY here: https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website: http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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The Kink Consultant, Amanda Dames, called in to discuss kinks and fetishes and how she helps people work with them. Tune in to hear her discuss the different ways she works with couples as well as singles, the difference between a kink and a fetish, her fetish and how it has gotten in the way of her relationships, how and why sex is important in a relationship, how guys can explain their fetish to their partners and why its important to maintain a balance when it comes to your requests, where to meet fellow kinky people, how she advises people to get onto the lifestyle and how she vets places for them to try out, how and why she helps people choreograph scenes ahead of time during a session, why sex clubs aren’t great place to go to meet someone, apps that are preferable, how and why munches as well as national fetish parties are great way to meet like minded others, how she helps people both in person and online and how the sessions are set up plus a whole lot more. You can find all her courses here: https://www.amandadames.com/store **To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [email protected] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://vb.health To get 10% off Drive Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY https://beducate.me/pd2528-anonymous Use code: ANONYMOUS to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14-day money-back guarantee https://uberlube.com/discount/Strictly Use code: STRICTLY for 10% off Uberlube aka the BEST Lube EVER https://bluechew.com Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON https://viia.co/STRICTLYANON Try VIIA and use code STRICTLYANON for great SEX and sleep https://butterwellness.com/ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order To get $15 OFF your female oxytocin arousal tablets and more, use code STRICTLY here: https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website: http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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