124. A Peek Into the Path Not Taken | Checking In With the Husband, 3 Years Later

Checking In Three Years After Choosing a Childfree Life: Elizabeth and Victor ReflectHost Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss welcomes Victor back after months away to check in three years after they decided to stop pursuing children following a nearly 10-year infertility and adoption journey. They reflect on a recent Joshua Tree anniversary staycation that felt “full circle,” since they originally went there to make their decision. Victor shares he has reached greater acceptance and peace, with occasional “road not taken” awareness rather than regret, and has learned to enjoy meaningful uncle moments with his nephews and friends’ kids while acknowledging fatherly instincts. Elizabeth discusses ongoing curiosity about Victor’s internal experience, notes her own surprise at becoming more social, and they express gratitude for their childfree life, relationships, travel, and continued growth together.Victor ReturnsJoshua Tree Full CircleThree Years LaterRoad Not TakenUncle MomentsDid We Try EnoughTrust And CuriosityGratitude Without KidsWhat Surprised UsHealing And ClosingConnect with Elizabeth:IG: @bychanceavenueStay connected & up to date with all things By ChanceWant to share your story? Apply to be a guest!