124: The Red Flag Industrial Complex with Todd Baratz

Therapy speak is taking over everything including dating. This week therapist Todd Baratz joins us to talk about how anxiety got rebranded as discernment — and why knowing every term hasn't made a single one of us better at relationships.In conversation, we tackle:* Todd's call on which diagnosis goes viral next now that narcissism has had its run* Why everyone is avoidant, and how you can't tell if you feel safe with someone when you show up guarded by 25,000 memes* The reason insight feels like a solution when it isn't (and why collecting it is the same high as online shopping)* Todd on why everything feels like a scam right now * What Todd actually tells parents who ask him what to say when their kid asks about sexYou can follow Todd on Instagram @yourdiagnonsense. Find his work, including his book "How To Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind", online at toddsbaratz.com.WE ARE NOW ON SUBSTACK with bonus episodes, pep talks, episode guides, and so much more! Join us at nuanceneeded.substack.comTo learn more about therapy reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 43 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.Want to join the conversation? EMAIL- [email protected] or LEAVE US A MESSAGE at 813-444-8683. We'd love to hear what you think!