128. Do This When You’re in Your Own Way

As coaches, we’ve all had those moments where we’ve held ourselves back.  Whether it’s fear, perfectionism, distraction, or overwhelm… as humans, we’ve all been there.  It’s painful, especially when we know we’re doing it, yet we just can’t seem to break free from our sabotaging behaviors.  This episode is one of my favorites because we tackle self-sabotage head on.  Now, this episode originally aired what feels like a lifetime ago… and I’m bringing it forward today for 3 reasons First, and most importantly, our guest…  when we recorded this episode she was totally stuck around visibility.  Randi Corlin Roberts left her extremely successful corporate career to become a coach.   Randi had a massively successful track record, yet she held herself back from putting her coaching business out there.  Yes, she had private clients, but Randi wanted more…  Since this recording, Randi is so different.  She has a podcast now, she goes live, she’s launched power groups… she is a visibility machine!  So, I hope you feel inspired as you listen back and hear where she was at not long ago.  Reason #2:  We updated our coaching super power quiz and I want you to get your hands on the updated toolkits!  This episode is one of the resources we recommend for those coaches who score limitless potential, connection, or magnetism.   Let’s find out if that’s you - go take the quiz now at dallastravers.com/quiz The 3rd reason this episode matters is really just because as values driven coaches, we all have days where things feel hard and we wish we didn't have to be so visible.   As risky as it feels to put yourself out there, holding back is much more painful. So, I hope this episode inspires you in some way.  Okay… let’s get into it… TIMESTAMPS: 00:03:00 - Randi and Dallas set the table around the coaching topic for this episode 00:07:00 - Randi allows the part of herself that is holding her back to speak 00:11:00 - Dallas shares how change actually impacts your nervous system 00:15:00 - The pieces in Randi’s heart and head that are holding her back 00:17:00 - Dallas asks Randi “What is the self image of the person who can follow through on visibility actions?” 00:25:00 - Dallas digs into what it looks like to find pleasure in making mistakes 00:30:00 - Together, they put together a plan to cultivate the self image qualities of someone who follows through 00:39:00 - Randi’s takeaways and action steps CONNECT WITH RANDI: WEBSITE: corlinrobertscoaching.com  PODCAST: https://spoti.fi/3MIYrCN CONNECT WITH ME: INSTAGRAM:  http://instagram.com/dallastraversbizmentor FREE QUIZ: http://dallastravers.com/quiz