129: *3 signs* your avoidant partner is becoming SECURE (even if they still pull away)

Ever wondered: do avoidants even care? Does he even love me if he pulls away? If you have an anxious attachment style, this episode will hit 🧠⛈️ Because it often feels like YOU are the only one trying… while your avoidant partner shuts down, pulls away, and says nothing    But what if that “distance” is not lack of care… but a different kind of emotional growth? 👀 In this episode, I break down 3 signs your avoidant partner is becoming more secure even if they still need space and still pull away sometimes.   We’ll talk anxious vs avoidant attachment, emotional shutdowns, and why you feel like you care more than your partner  If you’re overthinking texts, spiraling after distance, or trying to fix everything in your head… this is for you   grab here your SECURE WOMAN PROTOCOL to not freak out when he pulls away!   CHAPTERS: 00:00 Understanding Attachment Styles 02:56 Signs of Growth in Attachment Styles 03:45 Sign 01 of healing (emotions) 06:11 Sign 02 of healing (beliefs) 10:02 Sign 03 of healing (needs) 16:19 How to feel calm when he pulls away     DISCLAIMER: I'm not a therapist or doctor. This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It's not intended to diagnose, treat, or heal any mental health conditions. This is not meant for situations involving abusive relationships of any kind. Always seek professional advice for personal health concerns.     Remember: Change in your relationship starts with YOU, thought by thought and action by action.