129. The Poop Test & Getting Unstuck: Answering Your Questions on Decluttering & Farm Life

Welcome back to Beyond the Cops, where farm life meets real life! In this episode, Jena and Mary Pat are giving a real-time update on the end of harvest and answering some fantastic listener questions. They kick things off by responding to a heartfelt voicemail from a listener navigating a tough season, which leads to an encouraging conversation about finding your place, embracing change, and trusting God's plan. From there, they dive into a fun and practical Q&A, covering everything from decluttering tips to the realities of homeschooling.📌 What We Cover in This Episode:✅ Responding to a Listener Voicemail✅ Decluttering Before the Holidays* The "Poop Test": A hilarious but effective question to ask yourself: "If there was poop on this, would I clean it or throw it away?" If you'd throw it away, you probably don't need it!* The "Cooling Zone": Mary Pat's strategy of putting items in a temporary box before getting rid of them for good.* Start Small & Be Intentional: How to tackle overwhelming spaces one drawer at a time and be intentional about what you bring back into your home.✅ Answering Your Questions!* Homeschooling "Why": Jena recaps her family's journey to homeschooling—from the daily chaos of a traditional school schedule to feeling a lack of quality time, and finally, Stetson himself asking to be more involved on the farm.* Family Vacations: Their favorite family getaways, from an off-the-grid trip to Canada to a beloved family cabin in Northern Wisconsin.* Decluttering (More!): A discussion on getting kids involved in the decluttering process and teaching them responsibility for their spaces.💡 Key Takeaways:✨ You are not alone in your struggles. Every farm family faces hard seasons, tough conversations, and periods of uncertainty. There is hope and redemption on the other side.✨ When facing a trial, ask, "What is God trying to teach me?" Shifting your perspective from "Why me?" to "What can I learn?" opens the door for growth and understanding.✨ Decluttering your space declutters your mind. Creating physical breathing room in your home can have a profound impact on your mental and emotional well-being, especially during busy seasons.✨ It's okay to pivot when something isn't serving your family. Whether it's a school schedule or a business venture, have the courage to make a change if your current path is causing more chaos than connection.✨ Invest in your family's harmony. Prioritizing communication and seeking outside help for succession planning is one of the most important investments you can make in your farm's future.🙌 Join the Conversation!Have you navigated tricky family business conversations? What's one piece of advice you'd give to another farm family in transition? Share your thoughts and tag us @beyondthecrops_. And don't forget to leave us a message on our new voicemail line! The link is in our show notes.This episode of Beyond the Crops is brought to you by Beck's Hybrids. As farmers, we pour so much trust into every decision. That's why we're proud to partner with Beck's Hybrids, a company built on faith, family, and a love for agriculture since 1937. Learn more at beckshybrids.com.Leave us a Voice Message!We love hearing from you and continuing the conversation off the podcast. Click here to leave us a voice note!Thank you to the sponsor of this episode, Fieldview. Both Jena and MP have used Fieldview on their farms for the past several years and it's been an integral data and decision making tool for their operations. Check them out here