#13: Explain EFT to Me: How to Calm Your Nervous System When You’re Spiraling

Have you ever been set off by something that looks small to everyone else — but suddenly your chest is tight, your throat feels blocked, and you can’t fully exhale?Your body feels like it’s under attack… even though nothing “that bad” just happened.That’s spiraling — and if you’re a millennial mom in perimenopause, it may be happening more often than ever.In today’s episode of The Next Phase Podcast, I’m teaching you one of the most powerful nervous system regulation tools I know — one you can use anytime, anywhere, completely on your own.We’re talking about EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) — also known as tapping.I’ll walk you through:What spiraling actually is (and why it’s not a personal failure)Why anxiety feels more intense during perimenopauseWhat EFT is and why it works (yes, there’s real science behind it)How tapping helps calm your nervous system without numbing youA simple EFT formula you can use anytime you feel overwhelmedAnd finally, a guided EFT session you can come back to whenever you need itThis episode is especially for you if:Your anxiety feels physical (tight chest, racing thoughts, shallow breath)You’re tired of trying to “positive think” your way out of stressYou want to calm your body without gummies, wine, or scrollingYou need a tool that works in the moment — not later✨ Guided EFT SessionEFT tapping begins at: 25:32 (Bookmark this section so you can return to it anytime you’re spiraling.)🖐 EFT Meridian Points Used in This EpisodeUse this list to follow along during the tapping session:Karate Chop Point – Side of the hand, below the pinkyEyebrow – Inner edge of the eyebrowSide of the Eye – Outer corner of the eyeUnder the Eye – On the cheekbone, directly below the eyeUnder the Nose – Between the nose and upper lipChin – Crease between the lower lip and chinCollarbone – About 1 inch from the center of the collarboneUnder the Arm – About 3–4 fingers below the armpit, along the side of the bodyTop of the Head – The crown of the head(No need to memorize these — perfection is not the goal. Presence is.)💛 Want More Support?If EFT resonated with you and you want help using it to finally tackle the things you’ve been avoiding, I’d love to invite you to my January Reset Body Doubling Session.We’ll start with a guided EFT to calm your nervous system — then actually do the thing together, from a grounded, supported place.You don’t need more willpower in January. You need nervous system support — and community.👉 Sign up here: stacey-hutson.com/body-doublingIf this episode helped you, feel free to come back to the tapping anytime. There’s no rush, nothing to fix, and nothing you need to figure out right now.Just one breath at a time.Peace 🤍