13 - Loser

Full transcript here 👋 Hey, good morning, good afternoon, good evening. This is your life. This is your chance. Listen. The word for today is loser, and it too is going into the waste bin of our lexicon. The word loser had its moment in the sun in the 1990’s, but it’s still a go-to term for someone that you don’t like. I feel the word loser is attractive because we want people that have hurt us to lose. We want them to feel like a loser, so we project that status onto them. However, this is the direct opposite of compassion, and it has the power to put you in a cage of resentment, whether it successfully hurts the person or not. Today’s concrete challenge is to change your mental script. Think of one person that you might have considered a loser in the past and say to them in your head, “You are important.” If you feel prompted to do more, go for it, but the goal today is to rid your mind of the label, “loser.” Let me know how it went at concrete.win/today. Check back tomorrow for a new challenge. Until then.