13 Spots Men NEVER Touch (But Women Beg For) | Ep 92

Think you know what turns you on? Think again. We tend to treat pleasure like it lives in a few familiar places—the usual G-spots, the go-to zones we all default to. But the truth? Your entire skin is wired for sensation. Your body is a playground of possibility… and chances are, you’re only exploring a fraction of it.In this episode, I’m taking you beyond the basics—past the genitals, breasts, and all the usual G-spots—to uncover the overlooked 13 erogenous zones that can completely transform your experience of desire. No penetration required. Just curiosity, presence, and a willingness to explore what’s been hiding in plain sight.From the power of the brain (yes, it’s your sexiest organ) to the often-ignored backs of your knees (seriously!), I’m showing you how to awaken your body in unexpected ways—ways that build anticipation, deepen connection, and redefine pleasure entirely.If your sex life feels a little too routine—or you’re just ready to feel more alive in your own skin—this episode is a must listen! Let’s unlock the pleasure you didn’t know you were missing.Timestamps:(00:00) Introduction (01:32) Brain as the biggest sex organ (Did you know you can orgasm without any touch?)(01:58) The skin: Your body’s largest erogenous zone(02:30) Lips & tongue: Beyond kissing—creative ways to tease and tantalize(03:22) The neck, clavicle, and ears: Slow, sensual exploration(04:20) Fingers: How to use them everywhere (plus combining touch with lips)(05:05) Armpits and inner arms: Surprising zones for some, turn-offs for others—how to navigate(05:34) The sides of the torso and thighs: The art of the tease(06:04) Behind the knees: My personal favorite(06:16) Feet: Beyond fetishes—how gentle touch can ignite full-body arousal(06:45) Outercourse: Why pleasure doesn’t need to lead to intercourse(07:18) Mindfulness: How being present amplifies sensation (per Peggy Kleinplatz’s Magnificent Sex)(07:57) Cannabis and sex: Can it heighten pleasure? (08:41) Final takeaway: Pleasure is limitlessKaren Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:Email: [email protected]: https://www.taboototruth.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruthYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcastKaren Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:Email: [email protected]: https://www.taboototruth.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruthYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcastTake control of your pleasure with my Pleasure Playbook, filled with tips to help you connect with your body and enhance intimacy. Download it now at www.taboototruth.com/pleasureplaybook.Take control of your pleasure with my Pleasure Playbook, filled with tips to help you connect with your body and enhance intimacy. Download it now at www.taboototruth.com/pleasureplaybook.