EPISODE · Feb 15, 2024 · 23 MIN
13. When Is Sex Between Two Unmarried People God Honoring?
from The Queer Christian: Navigating Faith, Church and the Bible · host Elton Sherwin
Are the rules for gay sex different than straight sex? GRANDMA CLAIR’S: SEVEN RULES FOR SAFE SEX: 1) If you can become pregnant get a LARC. 2) When dating go slowly, start with your hands and wait awhile before you move to oral or intercourse. 3) Only have intercourse inside of a monogamous and romantic relationship. 4) ALWAYS use condoms, to protect against STIs. 5) Avoid hook-up sex. And if you do have hook-up sex use only your hands. 6) Wait on oral sex until you are in a long-term, monogamous relationship and have both been tested for STIs. 7) Try to wait until you are 19 to have intercourse. REPORTS USED: (Capitalization in tiny URLs matters) Hook-up Sex Flunks Out, But Romance Rocks: http://tiny.cc/RomanceRocks Romantic Sex Lowers Teen Delinquency http://tiny.cc/SexAndDelinquency Queer Youth and School Engagement https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2835305/ LARCs Success: http://tiny.cc/NYTLARCS http://tiny.cc/LARCSgraduate http://tiny.cc/OBGYNAdvice http://tiny.cc/YesLARCS STIs risks: Oral and Anal Sex verses using hands (fingering) http://tiny.cc/sti1 http://tiny.cc/sti2 http://tiny.cc/sti3 Kissing and STIs http://tiny.cc/KissingRisks http://tiny.cc/Kiss4Gonorrhoea Percent of Americans Having Premarital Sex https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/p.htm http://tiny.cc/Guttmacher2006 http://tiny.cc/TeenSexStats Teens and STIs https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5002249/ Late Bloomers Rock: Delaying First Intercourse Beyond High School Is Beneficial http://tiny.cc/DoesTrueLoveWait http://tiny.cc/HeritageTeenSex http://tiny.cc/57studiesonTeenSex A Book of Charts http://tiny.cc/HeritageCharts Early Sex in El Salvador and Peru Has Poor Outcomes http://tiny.cc/TeenSexPeru Children of Teen Moms https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK219236/ https://voxeu.org/article/why-children-teen-mothers-do-worse-life Graduation Rates for Teen Moms: http://tiny.cc/TeenMomsInSchool #premaritalsex #teensex #Christiansex #gaysex #safesex
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Are the rules for gay sex different than straight sex? GRANDMA CLAIR’S: SEVEN RULES FOR SAFE SEX: 1) If you can become pregnant get a LARC. 2) When dating go slowly, start with your hands and wait awhile before you move to oral or intercourse. 3) Only have intercourse inside of a monogamous and romantic relationship. 4) ALWAYS use condoms, to protect against STIs. 5) Avoid hook-up sex. And if you do have hook-up sex use only your hands. 6) Wait on oral sex until you are in a long-term, monogamous relationship and have both been tested for STIs. 7) Try to wait until you are 19 to have intercourse. REPORTS USED: (Capitalization in tiny URLs matters) Hook-up Sex Flunks Out, But Romance Rocks: http://tiny.cc/RomanceRocks Romantic Sex Lowers Teen Delinquency http://tiny.cc/SexAndDelinquency Queer Youth and School Engagement https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2835305/ LARCs Success: http://tiny.cc/NYTLARCS http://tiny.cc/LARCSgraduate http://tiny.cc/OBGYNAdvice http://tiny.cc/YesLARCS STIs risks: Oral and Anal Sex verses using hands (fingering) http://tiny.cc/sti1 http://tiny.cc/sti2 http://tiny.cc/sti3 Kissing and STIs http://tiny.cc/KissingRisks http://tiny.cc/Kiss4Gonorrhoea Percent of Americans Having Premarital Sex https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/p.htm http://tiny.cc/Guttmacher2006 http://tiny.cc/TeenSexStats Teens and STIs https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5002249/ Late Bloomers Rock: Delaying First Intercourse Beyond High School Is Beneficial http://tiny.cc/DoesTrueLoveWait http://tiny.cc/HeritageTeenSex http://tiny.cc/57studiesonTeenSex A Book of Charts http://tiny.cc/HeritageCharts Early Sex in El Salvador and Peru Has Poor Outcomes http://tiny.cc/TeenSexPeru Children of Teen Moms https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK219236/ https://voxeu.org/article/why-children-teen-mothers-do-worse-life Graduation Rates for Teen Moms: http://tiny.cc/TeenMomsInSchool #premaritalsex #teensex #Christiansex #gaysex #safesex
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