#130: What’s In It For Me? (Transactional Dating)

What’s in it for me? When the masculine or feminine approaches dating with this question in the background, it is rarely about selfishness. More often, it comes from past relationships where someone felt like they gave more than they received.In this conversation, we explore why this mindset can show up for both men and women, how unresolved relationship pain can make dating feel transactional, and why understanding reciprocity is often the first step toward creating a healthier, more balanced way of relating.We unpack:- Why people begin asking “what’s in it for me” in dating- How past relationship experiences can shape current expectations- The difference between healthy boundaries and protective dating- Why reciprocity is essential for a balanced partnership- What men are often seeking beneath the surface in relationships- What women are often protecting when they approach dating cautiously- How appreciation fuels generosity in the masculine- Why scorekeeping can quietly erode connection- The importance of getting clear about what you want to give in partnership- How shifting your perspective can open the door to healthier relationshipsWant to work with Bri and/or Courtney?Connect with Bri on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠Connect with Courtney on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠Follow the show on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠Looking for deeper support?Check out our Masterclasses:1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a62️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f#MasculineAndFeminine #ModernDating #RelationshipDynamics #HealthyRelationships #DatingMindset #EmotionalConnection #RelationshipGrowth #ConsciousDating #ReciprocalLove #DatingAwareness