134. The Promotion Questions You're Afraid to Ask (Answered)

What this episode covers

In episode 134, we're getting into the promotion questions you're afraid to ask, the real ones, pulled straight from a room full of high-achieving women.You are already delivering above your title. This one is for the woman who is doing the work and is ready for the actual playbook, not more vague feedback. I taught a live training this week and opened it up for real questions, and the coaching I gave on each is the whole episode.In this episode, I cover:→ Why getting denied an internal promotion is almost never about your capability→ What to do when your company "pauses" promotions (and the parallel path that protects you)→ How to get your title and pay to finally match the work you are doing→ The reframe for checking in on your promotion without feeling annoying→ How to build relationships with decision-makers in a new or remote roleKey Takeaways:– Promotions are decided by more than your manager. Positioning and visibility with the right people is the lever– "Waiting" quietly adds time to your promotion cycle. Run a parallel path instead– Vet an organization's health the same way they vet you– Follow up like a dog with a bone: document, check in, repeat– Every question comes back to three things: your roadmap, your ecosystem, and your visibilityChapters:00:01 Meet Dani + who this is for02:22 Denied the internal promotion, what am I missing?04:38 Delivering at the next level, but promotions are paused09:17 Vetting the health of your organization11:00 Your title and pay don't match (and asking backfired)13:53 Checking in without feeling annoying16:11 Building relationships in a new or remote role18:29 The three themes behind every promotion question20:46 The replay, the bonus, and working togetherHow to work together - book a call or DM with questions on IG or LI. Book a Discovery Call ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn what it's like to work togetherConnect and DM on LinkedIn: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.linkedin.com/in/dani-tan⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect and DM on IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.instagram.com/danitani/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠My site: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.danitan.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join my weekly newsletter

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