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EPISODE · Jul 18, 2026 · 57 MIN

#138: What She's Really Scanning for When You Approach (It's Not Smoothness)

from For The Love Of Men Podcast · host Courtney Schand & Brianna Mosher

In this episode, we explore what attraction feels like from a woman's perspective and why so many men may be focusing on the wrong things. We unpack the role of presence, emotional safety, curiosity, and authenticity, while explaining why genuine connection consistently outweighs polished lines or social performance.  Why women often experience attraction very differently than men think they do. The surprising quality that creates attraction long before looks ever do. Why trying to impress everyone can actually make you less attractive. What women are really feeling when a man approaches them. The simple conversation habit that instantly makes someone more memorable. Why focusing on connection instead of getting a phone number changes everything. How authenticity naturally stands out in a dating world full of performance.  We discuss:Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney?Connect with Bri on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠Connect with Courtney on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠Follow the show on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠Looking for deeper support?Check out our Masterclasses:1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! Clientclubmembership-hmi-preview2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! Clientclubmembership-hmi-preview3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! Clientclubmembership-hmi-preview#DatingAdvice #ModernDating #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipAdvice #DatingTips #EmotionalSafety #AuthenticConnection #ConfidenceInDating #MasculineEnergy #FeminineEnergy #DatingMindset #SelfAwareness #CommunicationSkills #PersonalGrowth #ForTheLoveOfMen

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