139. Comparing Your Spouse to Your Affair Partner

Comparison is a normal human behavior, especially if you're romantically involved with multiple people. There is a time and place to make comparisons, but are the comparisons you're making between your spouse and your affair partner (or between any two people in your life) helping you in any discernable way?   Discover the problem with comparing your spouse to your affair partner. Dr. Marie Murphy is discussing why making comparisons doesn't make decisions easier, how to see where you're stuck in an unhelpful and ineffective comparison loop, and 3 simple tips for doing things differently if comparing your romantic partners isn't helping you make a decision about your infidelity situation.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://mariemurphyphd.com/139