14. 90% of Struggling Couples Have *THIS* in Common | Advice From a Marriage Expert ft. Kristen & Scott Kedersha

Want to know the biggest cause of struggling marriages? We’re getting the inside scoop from a marriage expert! Scott Kedersha is a marriage pastor and has been married to his bride Kristen for 21 years. In this episode, they share with us all their best advice from a marriage counselor: the biggest misconceptions about marriage, the biggest mistakes couples make, and some honest confessions about what they struggle with in their own marriage. // TIMESTAMPS // » 0:00 Meet Kristen & Scott Kedersha » 2:25 Their messy love story: What they got wrong then how they got it right » 8:45 Trusting your people to speak into whether or not your relationship is healthy » 11:15 How walking in community has blessed their marriage » 15:35 The biggest misconceptions people have about marriage - 2 contradictions » 22:39 The biggest roadblocks to a happy, healthy marriage (what 90+% of couples who are struggling have in common) » 26:40 What healthy community is + how to find it » 33:39 Their honest confessions of the things that are hard in their own marriage » 44:02 How to date your spouse » 50:05 What’s on Kristen & Scott’s Knotty List? // MEET THE KEDERSHAS // » Scott’s Website: https://www.scottkedersha.com/ » Scott’s book Ready or Knot: https://amzn.to/3h8Fmiz » Scott’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/skedersha/ // MENTIONED // △ Ep. 07 on Soulmates: http://knottedmarriage.com/07/ △ Ep. 12 on weekly family meetings: https://knottedmarriage.com/12/ // RESOURCES // ☆ Build a solid foundation for a lasting marriage with Ready to Knot: https://bit.ly/lgkreadytoknot △ 7 questions to ask before you get married: https://bit.ly/lgk7questions Your support means everything to us. Please subscribe, leave a review, and share a screenshot on Instagram @knottedmarriage! // LET’S BE FRIENDS // » Join us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/knottedmarriage/ » Subscribe for more encouragement on YouTube: https://bit.ly/knottedsubscribe » Check out Mollie’s channel: https://www.youtube.com/molliemason // CONTRIBUTE TO THE SHOW // Have a question for our next Q&A episode? Suggestions for topics or guests? We’d love to hear from you! Submit your suggestions here: https://knottedmarriage.com/podcast/#contribute