14: DOCTORS, is it time to challenge yourself to ASK for what you want?

Join the ASK SANTA broadcast channel: https://www.instagram.com/doctor_becc/   This week on the podcast, we're inviting you to a challenge for December: THE "ASK SANTA" CHALLENGE.    This is a challenge for you to take on the "Ask Santa" mindset.    Ask Santa is a permission-giving mindset.    It's a mindset that, at its foundation, asks you to stop auto-rejecting your wants and wishes and start honouring and acting on them.    Years ago, Becc noticed she'd developed a pattern of reflexively silencing the sentences that started as    "I wish…" "It would be great if…" "Wouldn't it be nice if.."   With her mind dismissively responding   "That's unrealistic" "You shouldn't ask" "You should just be easy" "You should just accept" "Don't be too much" "Don't inconvenience them" "They'll feel like they have to say yes" "They wouldn't say no even if they wanted to" "Don't risk putting pressure on them"   So, before she'd even considered what she wanted, she'd counted herself out.    Here's the thing about Santa.    If you don't write the letter, how can he fulfil your wish? And, if you don't believe in Santa, you won't ask for what you want. And, so, you won't get it.    If you don't believe, you won't receive.  Or, more accurately, if you don't believe, YOU WON'T ASK, and so you won't receive.    When we allow these responses that arise in our minds to make what we want seem unreasonable or unrealistic, we don't act like it's possible - we don't ask for it.    We need to allow ourselves to believe in order to get in the arena.    And, it's time to get in the arena.    In this podcast, we talk about the what and why of the ASK SANTA mindset. It's about expanding your life, taking up space and advocating for yourself, and assuming the best.    It’s not about whether you got a 'yes' or 'no' from Santa but about making yourself heard - first and foremost, by yourself.    We would love to hear if you're going to join the challenge! OR what fears come up and get in the way when we challenge you to ASK for what you wish.