14 | Faith Doesn’t Cancel Feelings: Why Suppressing Pain After Divorce Isn’t Spiritual episode artwork

EPISODE · Apr 13, 2026 · 30 MIN

14 | Faith Doesn’t Cancel Feelings: Why Suppressing Pain After Divorce Isn’t Spiritual

from The Midlife Comeback Club | Divorce, Faith, Confidence, Relationships, Healing · host Lori Ann Feeley | Christian Life Coach for Divorced Women

Episode #14: Faith Doesn’t Cancel Feelings — Why Suppressing Pain After Divorce Isn’t Spiritual As Christian women, we’re often taught that if we just “have enough faith,” we shouldn’t feel sad, angry, or overwhelmed. So after divorce, when those emotions show up… We try to pray them away. Ignore them. Push them down. And call it faith. But what if suppressing your feelings isn’t spiritual at all? In this honest and eye-opening episode of The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast, I talk about the real reason so many Christian women stay stuck emotionally after divorce—and why pretending you’re “fine” is actually slowing down your healing. Because the truth is… Faith doesn’t cancel your feelings. And healing doesn’t happen when you ignore what you feel—it happens when you finally face it. If you’ve ever felt like your emotions mean you’re doing something wrong spiritually, this episode will help you understand something powerful. You’re not failing in your faith. You’re learning how to process your pain in a healthy, honest way. In This Episode You’ll Learn: – Why suppressing emotions after divorce keeps you stuck longer than necessary – The difference between real healing and “spiritual avoidance” – What the Bible actually shows us about emotions and faith – WhatvJesus did when it came to expressing his deep emotions – How to stop trying to “pray away” your feelings – What it looks like to bring honest, unfiltered emotions to God – How emotional healing and spiritual growth actually work together ✨ Ready to Heal Without Pretending You’re Fine? If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is walking through this process with support. Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, my annual group coaching membership, you’ll find ✨ My 90 day transformational "Crush Your Divine Comeback, Girl" Program  ✨ Weekly live coaching and Q&A sessions with Lori Ann, Certified Christian Life Coach ✨ Faith-based guidance & strategies for healing after divorce ✨ A supportive community of Christian women rebuilding their lives You don’t have to navigate this alone. 🎉 Join The Midlife Comeback Club: https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club 🎧 Subscribe & Leave a Review If this episode encouraged you, please: ✨ Follow or Subscribe to The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast ✨ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts ✨ Share this episode with another Christian woman who needs this message Your review helps more women searching for healing after divorce and faith-based support find this podcast. 🙌 Take My FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz Discover what phase of healing you’re in—and what your next step should be. 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz Become an Insider for FREE! https://loriannfeeley.com/insider 💕 Connect With Me 💕 Website: https://www.loriannfeeley.com 💕 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley 💕 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513

Episode #14: Faith Doesn’t Cancel Feelings — Why Suppressing Pain After Divorce Isn’t Spiritual As Christian women, we’re often taught that if we just “have enough faith,” we shouldn’t feel sad, angry, or overwhelmed. So after divorce, when those emotions show up… We try to pray them away.Ignore them.Push them down. And call it faith. But what if suppressing your feelings isn’t spiritual at all? In this honest and eye-opening episode of The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast, I talk about the real reason so many Christian women stay stuck emotionally after divorce—and why pretending you’re “fine” is actually slowing down your healing. Because the truth is… Faith doesn’t cancel your feelings. And healing doesn’t happen when you ignore what you feel—it happens when you finally face it. If you’ve ever felt like your emotions mean you’re doing something wrong spiritually, this episode will help you understand something powerful. You’re not failing in your faith.You’re learning how to process your pain in a healthy, honest way. In This Episode You’ll Learn: – Why suppressing emotions after divorce keeps you stuck longer than necessary– The difference between real healing and “spiritual avoidance”– What the Bible actually shows us about emotions and faith– WhatvJesus did when it came to expressing his deep emotions– How to stop trying to “pray away” your feelings– What it looks like to bring honest, unfiltered emotions to God– How emotional healing and spiritual growth actually work together ✨ Ready to Heal Without Pretending You’re Fine? If this episode spoke to your heart, the next step is walking through this process with support. Inside The Midlife Comeback Club, my annual group coaching membership, you’ll find✨ My 90 day transformational "Crush Your Divine Comeback, Girl" Program  ✨ Weekly live coaching and Q&A sessions with Lori Ann, Certified Christian Life Coach✨ Faith-based guidance & strategies for healing after divorce✨ A supportive community of Christian women rebuilding their lives You don’t have to navigate this alone. 🎉 Join The Midlife Comeback Club:https://loriannfeeley.com/the-midlife-comeback-club 🎧 Subscribe & Leave a Review If this episode encouraged you, please: ✨ Follow or Subscribe to The Midlife Comeback Club Podcast✨ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts✨ Share this episode with another Christian woman who needs this message Your review helps more women searching for healing after divorce and faith-based support find this podcast. 🙌 Take My FREE Divorce Recovery Quiz Discover what phase of healing you’re in—and what your next step should be. 👉 https://loriannfeeley.com/divorce-recovery-quiz Become an Insider for FREE! https://loriannfeeley.com/insider💕 Connect With Me 💕 Website: https://www.loriannfeeley.com💕 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loriannfeeley💕 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553120634513

NOW PLAYING

14 | Faith Doesn’t Cancel Feelings: Why Suppressing Pain After Divorce Isn’t Spiritual

0:00 30:32

No transcript for this episode yet

We transcribe on demand. Request one and we'll notify you when it's ready — usually under 10 minutes.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long is this episode of The Midlife Comeback Club | Divorce, Faith, Confidence, Relationships, Healing?

This episode is 30 minutes long.

When was this The Midlife Comeback Club | Divorce, Faith, Confidence, Relationships, Healing episode published?

This episode was published on April 13, 2026.

What is this episode about?

Episode #14: Faith Doesn’t Cancel Feelings — Why Suppressing Pain After Divorce Isn’t Spiritual As Christian women, we’re often taught that if we just “have enough faith,” we shouldn’t feel sad, angry, or overwhelmed. So after divorce, when those...

Can I download this The Midlife Comeback Club | Divorce, Faith, Confidence, Relationships, Healing episode?

Yes, you can download this episode by clicking the download button on the episode player, or subscribe to the podcast in your preferred podcast app for automatic downloads.
URL copied to clipboard!