14: Holiday Manuals

Send us Fan MailNot only do we have a manual we carry around for how other people "should" show up for us, but we have a manual for what the holidays "should" look like too. And these holiday manuals are anything but Merry and Bright! They create resentment and hurt feelings. Today we will explore how to proactively create the holidays you want while still allowing people to do whatever they are going to do.  So yes, even if that certain family member puts you on the spot, just like they always do, you can navigate it from a place of clear confidence. You've got this!