#14-How to NOT fuck up in the swinger and sex club lifestyle

The swinger and sex club lifestyle is fun, accepting, non-judgmental and ethnical.  It’s important that anyone making a transition to this lifestyle from mainstream society (also known as vanilla world) understand some basic etiquette, rules/boundaries, and best practices so that you have a smooth and thriving onboarding experience.   I have seen people fuck up… I have seen people get kicked out of sex clubs and banned.  Consent is not a joke and understanding how to navigate sex with negotiated consent is essential to being successful in this lifestyle, and life.   In this episode I list various things NOT to do so that you can assimilate well into the swinger lifestyle and sex club / sex positive culture. Each topic is time stamped below: 2:00 Watch where you step 3:58 Don’t be predatory 6:00 Don’t say rude/insulting comments 8:27 Don’t use small talk 9:50 Don’t look around for something better while with someone 11:09 Don’t touch without consent 13:08 Condoms already on your dick without a sex partner?! 13:48 Don’t try having sex without a condom unless it is explicitly negotiated 15:19 Condom train your dick 16:22 Don’t gossip and be aware of the small community 19:20 Don’t stare too much/long 19:30 Don’t stand too close/slither up to people  21:29 Respect boundaries 22:33 Don’t pull out your cell phone 23:19 Clean up after your play scene 23:29 Be careful of other peoples feelings & be sensitive to jealousy 24:50 Don’t hit on women while we are changing in the locker room 25:35 Don’t expect sex just because you are at a sex club 26:23 Don’t drink too much 27:14 Don’t get “feelings” in inappropriate dynamics 31:19 Don’t isolate/chat with just one half of a couple (as a single unicorn) 32:54 Don’t lie 34:15 Don’t be a dick 35:57 Be careful what you ask people to reveal about themselves 36:57 Don’t ask boring questions ***** Get your free Swinger Lifestyle Starter Kit - learn what to expect, common mistakes to avoid, and how to walk into a sex-positive space without feeling out of place: 👉⁠https://torontounicorn.kit.com/starterkitpodcast⁠ Ready to go deeper? Check out my full courses at ⁠LevelUpWithTorontoUnicorn.com⁠ ***** ALL social media links (YouTube, podcasts, fan page, etc): ⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠⁠ DIRECT link to my explicit TorontoUnicorn fan page: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://OnlyFans.com/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -- Sex Stories Podcast! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/sex-stories-with-torontounicorn/id1695478072⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   🎙️Did you know I have multiple uncensored podcasts? Links: ⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicornPodcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to hear girl talks and 1:1 interviews with single women who go to sex clubs? Check out my Spotify playlist: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/playlist/7ruCXHOhDqTegyco4vLA4y?si=4c13eb056ac44a67⁠⁠⁠ -- Want to own something I wear, use, recommend or chuckle at? Check out my Amazon storefront! *affiliate links provide me with a small commission* 🇺🇸 Amazon storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/torontounicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🇨🇦 Amazon storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.ca/shop/torontounicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ***** Please rate this podcast 5 stars and leave a comment to help others discover it too :) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices