#14 I Was Called An Idiot: Finding Humanity When Everyone’s Losing It

In this episode, Martina dives into a situation that might hit close to home: being judged, criticized, or even called “stupid” just for having your own opinions—especially in a time when everyone’s feeling intense, emotional, and maybe a bit on edge.After recently being called “stupid” by a family member for her stance on the U.S. election (if she could vote), Martina’s here to share why that comment didn’t sting and how her sense of self-worth kept her calm and grounded. This episode explores how we can stay true to ourselves without letting others’ opinions take us down and why we’re all a lot more alike than we might think—even when we disagree.Key Points:The Power of Self-Worth: How grounding yourself in your values and worth can protect you from others’ judgments.Seeing Humanity Beyond Opinions: The reality that, underneath all our differences, we share the exact core needs—peace, love, and acceptance—even if our paths to getting there look different.Conquering the “Judgment Spiral”: Practical steps to sidestep judgment when others’ beliefs rub you the wrong way and focus instead on empathy and understanding.Why It’s OK to Feel Intensely: Acknowledging the normalcy of fear, grief, or frustration over the world’s chaos—without letting those emotions morph into hate.Standing Tall in Your Beliefs: Knowing and accepting yourself at a deep level allows you to navigate polarizing conversations with a steady heart.Tune in for a grounded, spicy chat about finding humanity in times of chaos and keeping your peace—even when everyone else seems to be losing it.Got a thought, reaction, or moment this episode stirred up? Send me a note. I read every message — and sometimes they shape future episodes.Follow Martina on Instagram @femmagical for behind-the-scenes content, updates, and more!Subscribe to "I Do Me, Boo" on your favorite podcast platform so you never miss an episode.Love what you heard? Leave a comment or review to let Martina know what resonated with you.Also, share this episode with friends and family who need a reminder about the importance of health and boundaries.Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.