14. It's Not About What Happens, It's About How You Respond

In this powerful and perspective-shifting episode of Blowing the Lid, Cleris Sanchez breaks down a truth we don’t talk about enough: your reaction holds more weight than the actual problem.Whether it’s spilled milk, a miscommunication with your partner, or a stressful moment with your kids, Cleris shares how learning to respond instead of react is one of the most life-changing forms of self-leadership. She opens up about how she now speaks from calm and compassion—even in the chaos—and how this shift has impacted her home, her relationships, and her peace.This episode is for the woman who’s ready to break old cycles, stop apologizing for her reactions, and start leading from the version of herself she’s becoming.KEY MOMENTS: 01:15 – Why I Stopped Reacting the Way I Used ToThe moment I realized old reactions weren’t protecting me—they were draining me.02:37 – When Luna Spilled the Milk: A Lesson in Peaceful ParentingHow one mess turned into a breakthrough moment for me and my daughter.05:36 – Speaking From Love, Not FrustrationHow shifting the tone in my relationship created more trust, more connection, and more peace.07:37 – You’re Not Stuck in Old PatternsYour permission slip to breathe, pause, and lead from the woman you’re becoming.09:11 – Be the Calm: Your Invitation to Respond DifferentlyThe final reminder that your power is in how you show up—especially when things go wrong.DREAM LIFE JOURNAL🎁 Get the "Writing My Thoughts and Creating My Dream Life" JournalCONNECT WITH CLERIS📱 Instagram: @blowingthelid🌐 Website: ⁠www.blowingthelidwithcleris.com⁠SUPPORT ‘BLOWING THE LID’ ✨ Love what you’re hearing? Please subscribe, rate, and review Blowing The Lid! Your support helps spread the light to more listeners.  👉 Share this episode with a friend or tag it in your IG stories. Don’t forget to follow along on Instagram ⁠@blowingthelid⁠ for more inspiration.