#14 - The Mother Wound or How to love someone without expectations (and suffering)

Love is connection, attachment. When we love someone, we are attached to them. And that attachment, makes us to want the relationship to be a certain way. That attachment creates expectations, and when these expectations are not met, we suffer. We are in pain. Our expectations create our pain.Letting go of these expectations is the detachment we need to be in a peaceful relationship. It might sound counterintuitive to be detached in a relationship where we feel attached to someone... but it is key.Especially in the mother-daughter relationship. My relationship with my mother has had its ups and downs, and I want to share with you how I moved away from feeling hurt, to fully accepting our relationship and allowing it to be what it is, instead of what I hoped it was. This changed the relationship deeply and made it much easier for the both of us. Listen on Apple Podcast, Spotify and Google Podcast @sacredroots.podcast PS: More about this in my upcoming book "The Path of Femininity, the Six Gift of your Sovereignty"02:24 Where the mother wounds come from07:56 I’m not loveable11:24 Question your beliefs 15:55 Accept it or try to change it or you leave17:25 Trying to change things18:50 Change yourself21:09 Giving yourself space 26:20 Identify your expectations 28:55 Letting go of your expectations 33:17 Observe her and accept her 34:38 Be open36:24 How much energy do you want to spend in the relationship?Follow me on Instagram at www.instagram.com/eledeposson to continue the conversation Join the waitlist to work with me 1:1 or in a group container for female entrepreneurs:https://www.eleonoredeposson.com/waitlist Download the free guidebook "How to live in your feminine now and replace hustle and control with ease and alignment":https://www.eleonoredeposson.com/5ways Buy the book "The Self-Healing Spiral - Heal and Love Yourself": https://amzn.to/2C8Q9RT Intro + Outro music: Gold cast, PolarisThis podcast is for educational purposes only. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein.