143 - How can I declutter when I'm sentimental about everything?

Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryTwo clients, one week, the same sentence. "I'm worried because I'm sentimental about everything." It's a phrase Heather hears often, and one that quietly convinces people they're worse at decluttering than everyone else.In this episode, Heather breaks sentimentality down into four levels, most of what feels precious isn't actually equal, and talks through how neurodivergence can shape emotional attachment to belongings. She shares the story of a bag of trip souvenirs that taught her the difference between a true memory and something that just happened to be sitting next to one through osmosis. She also makes the case for why being sentimental, far from being a disadvantage, is a skill worth developing rather than a flaw to fix.In this episode you will learn:Why sentimentality isn't a weakness, and why it's simply a natural part of being humanHow neurodivergence can shape emotional attachment to belongingsThe four levels of sentimentality, from long-time possessions to pure sentimental items, and the "osmosis" attachment in betweenThe difference between fondness and true sentimental attachmentHow grouping souvenirs and keepsakes together makes them all feel equally important, and how to break that grouping apartThe question to ask yourself about any item, would this matter if it was the only memory you had leftWhy non-sentimental, disposable living leads to more clutter and more cost over time, not lessWhy caring for your possessions and feeling attached to them is a skill worth developing, not a disadvantageMentioned in this episode:DeclutterCon, Heather's upcoming event for practical tips, reframes and connections to move forward decluttering and community support Support the showIf you'd like to say 'Thank you', by buying me a virtual coffee (it'll actually buy me a cup of tea!), you can do so HERE. It will mean I can afford to continue to give help for free and continue with this podcast.Get started with my Zoning and Getting Started Workshop, everything you need to know on how to get started and have the best success when decluttering.Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!Follow me on FacebookBuy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.Follow me on instagramFeel free to email me: [email protected] Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.