EPISODE · Apr 24, 2026 · 1H
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important
from Strictly Anonymous Confessions · host Kathy Kay
Chachi is queer, in an open marriage with a man and he thinks labels are super important and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear al the details including how and why labels himself as queer and what that means to him, his open relationship and how and why over time they now started playing solo, the rules they had going in, the one solo play date he had that caused a problem with his husband now they got through it, the hook-ups his partner has had and how they differ in how they both approach their hook-ups, how and why his partner gets turned on be his hook-ups but he doesn’t care to hear about his, how his partner is involved in the “bater”community and what that’s all about, what a “side” is as well, how and why even though he s attracted to men he labels himself queer instead of gay, why he considers his sexuality fluid and considers himself non binary, how and why language is important to the LGBTQ community, the root of the stigma of guy on guy action plus a whole lot more. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd Pre-order audiobook version here To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [email protected] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://www.promescent.com/kathykay15 - New customers get 15% off entire order, automatically applied at checkout https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! https://VB.Health - To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY https://beducate.me/pd2614-anonymous — Click here to take the quiz and get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness https://bluechew.com — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ X https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else: https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Chachi is queer, in an open marriage with a man and he thinks labels are super important and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear al the details including how and why labels himself as queer and what that means to him, his open relationship and how and why over time they now started playing solo, the rules they had going in, the one solo play date he had that caused a problem with his husband now they got through it, the hook-ups his partner has had and how they differ in how they both approach their hook-ups, how and why his partner gets turned on be his hook-ups but he doesn’t care to hear about his, how his partner is involved in the “bater”community and what that’s all about, what a “side” is as well, how and why even though he s attracted to men he labels himself queer instead of gay, why he considers his sexuality fluid and considers himself non binary, how and why language is important to the LGBTQ community, the root of the stigma of guy on guy action plus a whole lot more. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd Pre-order audiobook version here To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [email protected] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://www.promescent.com/kathykay15 - New customers get 15% off entire order, automatically applied at checkout https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! https://VB.Health - To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY https://beducate.me/pd2614-anonymous — Click here to take the quiz and get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness https://bluechew.com — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ X https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else: https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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