#145 - Maybe It's Not About You

In this solo episode of Referrals Done Right, Scott continues his personal journey through one of the biggest decisions of his life and shares the perspective that brought him the greatest sense of peace so far. After weeks of seeking clarity through conversations with trusted mentors, he recounts a lunch that completely reframed the way he was approaching the decision. Instead of asking what was best for himself, he was challenged to ask a different question. What if the decision was never really about him in the first place?Scott reflects on a series of unexpected conversations and messages that all pointed toward the same idea. When your mission is rooted in serving others, fear, ego, and the need for certainty begin to lose their grip. Whether you are navigating a business decision, career change, or personal crossroads, this episode offers a thoughtful reminder that clarity often comes when you stop focusing on yourself and start focusing on the people you are called to impact.You Will Learn:• Why shifting your focus from yourself to your mission can bring greater clarity• How trusted mentors can help you see the perspectives you may be missing• Why waiting for perfect certainty often keeps people from moving forward• How purpose becomes clearer when you lead with service instead of ego• A simple question that can help guide difficult decisions with greater peace---Scott Grates' Links:Referrals Done Right - https://www.referralsdoneright.orgReferrals Done Right FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/296359076662332Scott Grates Website - https://www.scottgrates.comLove Living Local  - https://www.instagram.com/lovelivinglocal315Scott's FB - https://www.facebook.com/scott.grates.1Scott's - https://www.instagram.com/scottgratesTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@scott.grates