#149: Homeschool OT Explains Reflex Integration, Picky Eaters & Kids Who Won’t Sit Still

What happens when vaccine mandates, school regulations, and a mama’s intuition collide? In this episode, I sit down with Tiffany, a homeschool mom of almost-seven-year-old twin boys in West Virginia and an occupational therapist who now serves the homeschool community.Tiffany shares how COVID, vaccine requirements, and a strong Christian conviction opened the door to homeschooling—not just for her twin boys, but for her stepkids too. We talk about co-ops, jujitsu, piano lessons, state requirements, and why “freedom” is the first word that comes to mind when she thinks of home education.As an OT, Tiffany also dives into reflex integration—how primitive reflexes can affect things like handwriting, reading, attention, picky eating, emotional regulation, and why some kids “can’t sit still” no matter how hard they try. If you’ve ever wondered, “Is this just a phase, or does my child actually need help?” this conversation is for you.In this episode, we cover:Homeschooling energetic twin boys with totally different strengthsNavigating co-ops, church life, and daily rhythms in West VirginiaHow vaccine mandates and religious convictions pushed some families toward homeschoolingThe difference between classical education and programs like Classical ConversationsWest Virginia vs. New York homeschool requirements (portfolio reviews, testing, paperwork)What pediatric occupational therapy actually is for homeschoolersReflex integration 101 and how unintegrated reflexes can show up asPoor handwritingTrouble sitting stillVisual scanning issues when readingPicky eating, chewing on clothes/pencilsBig emotions and meltdownsWhy it’s okay to ask for help and build your “village” as a homeschool parentConnect with Tiffany:Www.agapelove.comFacebook: The Homeschool OT, Tiffany ParsonsOther therapy resources: Www.HomeschoolOT.com Facebook: The Homeschool OT, Sarah CollinsHarkla (parent trainings): https://harkla.co/?rfsn=8716597.365cfaeLearn more about Green Ember: Helmer in the Dragon Tomb—the new prequel book from S. D. Smith—and explore the companion video game now available on Steam: sdsmith.com/helmer Perfect for parents seeking meaningful, courage-building stories for kids ages 8–12.📘 The Homeschool How To Complete Starter GuideThinking about homeschooling but don’t know where to start? Cheryl created this comprehensive guide, compiling insights from interviews with over 120 homeschooling families across the country. From navigating state laws to balancing work and home life — this eBook covers it all. Stop feeling overwhelmed and start feeling confident on your homeschooling journey. Support the showInstagram: TheHomeschoolHowToPodcast Facebook: The Homeschool How To Podcast