15. Who's Driving This Thing?

Ever notice how healing can feel like you're stumbling from one extreme to the other?One minute you're shrinking yourself to keep everyone comfortable. The next, you've discovered boundaries and suddenly you're acting like you're in witness protection.In this episode of Whatever... It's Fine, we're talking about the messy middle of growth - the sea legs phase. The part where tiny you and overcorrecting you are both fighting for the steering wheel while your future self is just trying to keep the car on the road.We'll explore people-pleasing, overcorrection, taking up space, shrinking down, and why neither extreme is actually the destination. Because maybe the goal isn't becoming smaller or bigger - maybe it's learning how to be your whole self.Grab your coffee (or emotional support beverage) and let's talk about who's driving this thing.