150 | Who Started It? (Doesn't Actually Matter)

In this message, Pastor Paul Durbin walks us through Jesus’s clear, practical steps for Christlike conflict resolution—and lovingly dismantles our excuses for avoiding tough conversations. Whether you’re the one who caused harm or the one who’s hurting, Scripture calls us to be the peacemakers. Pulling from Matthew 5 and Matthew 18, Paul outlines Jesus’ four-step process and contrasts it with how the world typically handles conflict (hint: we tend to do it backwards). Through humor, wisdom, and even a personal story about someone who went from critic to biggest supporter, this message is a timely call to courage, reconciliation, and living differently in a culture that cancels far too quickly.