152: Is It Rude? Or Boundaries?

Are you feeling caught between wanting to please others and wanting to prioritize your health and well-being this holiday season?  Listen in as I discuss the often tricky issue of setting boundaries, particularly during social events. Learn about mindset shifts and techniques to help you manage social pressures without sacrificing your well-being. I'll share relatable stories from some of our clients, Lisa, Sarah, and Amy, who have all grappled with these challenges, offering invaluable lessons for all of us. Join me as I navigate the tricky topic of saying 'NO,' exploring why society pressures us to always agree and be polite, and the damaging effects this can have on our health and autonomy. I'll also share insights on how to prioritize your own needs during the holiday season and how to say NO without guilt.  This episode is all about taking back control and prioritizing your well-being. So, if you're ready to navigate this holiday season with more grace and less stress, this episode is for you. Chapter Summaries Setting Healthy Boundaries and Saying No (0:00:08)  Set boundaries this holiday season without sacrificing well-being by shifting your mindset and using techniques to navigate social pressures. Saying No (0:16:02)  Saying no without guilt, setting boundaries, and prioritizing needs are discussed to understand why people push for a 'YES.' Prioritizing Yourself During the Holiday Season (0:27:41)  Prioritize needs, set boundaries, say no without guilt, and enjoy the holiday season. Get full show notes and more information here: https://elizabethsherman.com/hhs-2Hey! I love hearing from you. Send me a text. Let me know what resonated with you. I submitted a talk for SXSW 2027: Biohacking Is Just Dieting in a Lab Coat. Community voting runs through August 23rd, and it's part of what determines who gets on stage in Austin next March. If this resonates, I'd love your vote: CLICK HERE. Free account required, takes about a minute. If you’re a woman in midlife who wants better health without obsessing over weight, you’re in the right place. I’m Elizabeth Sherman, a life and health coach and host of the Total Health in Midlife Podcast.After coaching hundreds of women, I know the real problem usually isn’t “not enough information” – it’s too much of it, and not knowing where to start. With close to 300 episodes, this show can feel that way too.To make it easy, I created a free Listener’s Roadmap that helps you figure out which episodes are right for you right now. Tell me what you’re struggling with – low energy, emotional eating, stress, sleep, exercise, or all of the above – and I’ll point you to a curated path of episodes and resources to get you moving.Download your free roadmap at https://elizabethsherman.com/roadmap.