158 Hear People's Hearts: Going Beyond Words to What the Heart is REALLY Saying

Your wife screams, “You never say you love me.” You answer, “That’s not true. I told you I loved you in our marriage vow and if it ever changes, I’ll let you know.”OK, in this example both parties are getting it wrong. For the wife, it would have been better if she could have said, “I feel starved for love and affection. Can you please show you love me by …?”This lets the husband know there is an ache in her heart, a void that needs to be filled, and a specific action he should take to help fill that void.Read more here.Support the show