159 | Why You Overspend When You’re Stressed and What to Do Instead

Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin)Ever hit “Buy Now” when you're feeling stressed and then feel instant regret? In this episode, we explore why emotional spending happens and how your nervous system drives the urge to buy.  Instead of shaming yourself for overspending, you’ll learn to understand what your body is really trying to communicate.We dive into the difference between a dopamine hit and true regulation, and why buffering behaviors like shopping, overworking, or emotional eating keep us in the same patterns.  You'll understand how to replace impulsive spending with intentional spending that aligns with your values, so money becomes a neutral tool, not a source of shame. In this episode, we cover:Emotional spending as a nervous system signalSeeking dopamine vs. feeling feelingsBuffering patterns like overspending, overworking and overeatingMoney as a tool, not an emotional fixThe 24-hour pause to interrupt urgencyWays to Connect with Me and Learn More:Apply to Work with MeGenerate a Life Well Lived WebsiteInstagramLinkedInYouTubeGrab your free Human Design chartFoundational Resources