#16 Holy Spirit Audit (Part 3): Who Has Access to Your Heart?

In Part 3 of the Holy Spirit Audit series, Amber explores a deep but practical question: who have you actually given access to your heart? Using the picture of the “house of your subconsciousness” and the image of crab-bucket dynamics, she unpacks how relationships can either reinforce old lies or help you step into the healing God is doing in your life.This episode isn’t about blaming people, but about discernment, boundaries and walking in wisdom. Amber shares honestly about people-pleasing, feeling safer alone, and learning to recognise the voices that pull her closer to God versus the ones that quietly drag her off course.She closes with one simple but powerful question to take into prayer:“Holy Spirit, show me one relationship in my life where You want me to set a new boundary or shift my level of access.”