163. How to Figure Out What You *Actually* Want From Your Life and Stop Living for the Weekend

Do you have a life that looks completely fine on paper but doesn't actually feel good to be in? In this episode I walk through the three key pillars - your personal life, your professional life, and your relationships - and give you specific reflection questions and action items to start figuring out where the misalignment is coming from and what to do about it.What I cover:👉🏻 Why optimizing and doing more will never fix a life that isn't built on the right foundation👉🏻 The real story behind my decision to leave Chicago and move back to LA - and what it taught me about environment👉🏻 Pillar 1: Your personal life - how to audit your daily environment and figure out what's actually making your days feel heavy👉🏻 Pillar 2: Your professional life - reflection questions to get honest about whether your career is aligned with what you actually value👉🏻 Pillar 3: Your relationships - how the people around you are shaping your life more than you realizeSubscribe to Beyond Your Budget:https://breakyourbudget.substack.com/Personal Finance Starter Kit: https://breakyourbudget.substack.com/p/your-personal-finance-starter-kitBREAK YOUR BUDGET RESOURCES:💸 Personal Finance Dashboard:https://breakyourbudget.com/personal-finance-dashboard💸 Basic Budgeting Template: https://breakyourbudget.com/basic-budgeting-template💸 FI/RE Template: https://breakyourbudget.com/fire-template💸 RENT VS. BUY CALCULATORhttps://breakyourbudget.com/rent-vs-buy-calculator💳 Tools I Use:Rakuten Cash Back: https://shorturl.at/w0PcHSoFi HYSA: https://secure.money.com/pr/pa5344bfc4f2Try Classpass: https://classpass.com/refer/UKLV6BN026All Other Resources: https://breakyourbudget.com/links👩🏼‍💻 Inquiries: [email protected]📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breakyourbudget/📲 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breakyourbudget📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/michela_alloccaa💸 My ShopMy: https://shopmy.us/shop/michelaallocca00:00 — The feeling nobody has language for02:00 — Why productivity will never fix a misaligned foundation04:00 — The Chicago to LA story and what it taught me09:00 — How to use this episode as a life audit11:00 — Pillar 1: Your personal life19:00 — Pillar 2: Your professional life25:00 — Are you building toward something you actually want?27:00 — Action items for your professional life29:00 — Pillar 3: Your relationships35:00 — Wrapping up: paying attention is the whole thing