#163: Why Do I Look For Proof That My Spouse Is Not Trustworthy

Caller Allie's Question: "Why do I look for proof my husband isn’t trustworthy? Porn addiction hides in the background of my marriage. Things will be good for a while and then I’ll go searching for evidence that nothing is as good as it seems. I usually end up being right. He had made some great progress, and there is still such a long way to go. How do I let go of trying to uncover my husband's secrets when I am afraid he won’t try to overcome his addiction on his own?" Brannon Patrick LCSW (@brannon_patrick), is co-founder of Therapy Utah . He has some really great online courses available at brannonpatrick.com like his Boundary Bootcamp course. Brannon has a program called L.I.F.T. for betrayal trauma and addiction recovery available online starting soon. Go to LiftForRecovery.com for more info! Tyler Patrick LMFT (@the.wandering.therapist), is co-founder of Love Strong, a therapy practice for sex addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing based in Cache Valley, Utah. Sign up for a free 15-minute Consultation Call with Tyler for online or in-person therapy to recover from sex addiction and heal from trauma. Check out Tyler's other podcast: The Wandering Therapist Sessions.  Join us for one of our "Life-Changing" retreats. https://lovestrong.com  Radiant Dawn | Women's Retreat Rising Son | Men's Retreat Vibrant Love | Couple's Retreat We would love to answer any questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, and healing. Go to RealTalkRecovery.com to submit your question (and if you're open to being a guest on the podcast, you can schedule your call as well)!