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165: So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex… Did You Actually Want It? feat. She Comes First author Ian Kerner

from Girls Gone Deep · host Elle and Vee

This week Elle and Vee chat with Ian Kerner, a licensed psychotherapist and bestselling author of She Comes First who helps individuals and couples build deeper desire, connection, and sexual confidence. Together, they unpack how everything from your early sexual experiences to the “sex scripts” you’ve internalized may be quietly shaping your turn-ons, your relationships, and your struggles with desire, ED, and communication. From de-centering intercourse and exploring coreplay to navigating fantasies, non-monogamy, and the psychological runway of arousal, this episode is a raw, eye-opening look at what it really takes to create a sex life that actually feels good.Support the show______How to Support the Show: 💰 Donate Here 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop  — wear your kinks proudly.🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials.🪄 WAANDS™:  Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com  IG: @wlthegame🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket  IG: @naughtydisco💌 Contact: [email protected]© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

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This week Elle and Vee chat with Ian Kerner, a licensed psychotherapist and bestselling author of She Comes First who helps individuals and couples build deeper desire, connection, and sexual confidence. Together, they unpack how everything from your early sexual experiences to the “sex scripts” you’ve internalized may be quietly shaping your turn-ons, your relationships, and your struggles with desire, ED, and communication. From de-centering intercourse and exploring coreplay to navigating ...

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