#168: B is for Beautiful, Not Simply Functional

Episode 168 of the LOVE IS FEARLESS podcast, hosted by doug and janet newberry, titled "#168: B is for Beautiful, Not Simply Functional" was published on January 7, 2026 and runs 47 minutes.

January 7, 2026 ·47m · LOVE IS FEARLESS

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Episode Description

What if the biggest risk isn't failing—but never discovering who God created you to be?

In this episode, we revisit the letter B in the Love Is Fearless alphabet with fresh eyes. Back in Season 5 (Episode #128), we introduced the idea that Beautiful offers safety, healing, and regard—while Functional is just about getting things done. But now we're going deeper.

Beautiful isn't about being magazine-worthy. It's about being true.

Beautiful is "the most true thing"—what reflects who God created you to be, what reminds you of your Source, what feeds your soul. Functional is what we reach for in survival or striving mode—convenient, efficient, just trying to get through the day.

And here's the key discovery: Beautiful is always functional, but functional is not always beautiful.

In This Episode:

The difference between self-sourcing (relying on ourselves and our best ideas) and God-sourcing (discerning with God and others)
How the Three Instruments—Atmosphere, Discipline, and Life—help us curate a life of transformation instead of conformity
Why "curate" is the perfect word for this journey (hint: it means more than just choosing carefully)
The personal story of building hamster wheels and learning what it means to participate with God instead of just presenting Him with our plans
A fresh take on Romans 12:2: What if it's not about "don't be bad" but about refusing to settle for insecure attachments?
Jamie Winship's insight: "What kills creativity in people is fear. You can't operate on the creative part of your brain if the reptilian part is all about self-protection and self-promotion."

Three Practical Takeaways:

Notice what's functional versus beautiful in your daily life - Are your surroundings reminding you that you're loved and worthy, or just that you need to be efficient?
Ask yourself: "Am I self-sourcing or God-sourcing?" - When making plans, pause and ask: Am I relying on just myself, or am I listening to God and others?
Let God love you first with beauty - Go somewhere beautiful this week, or create beauty in your home—not for Instagram, but for your soul.

Resources Mentioned:

Episode #128: B is for Beautiful (Season 5)
Episode #127: A is for Affections (Season 5) Episode #167: A is for Affections, Not Addictions (Season 7)
Jamie and Donna Winship
John 15 Academy

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You can be busy with lots of "good" work and never experience the flow of standing in your God-given identity. Beautiful isn't about being impressive or perfect. It's about being true.

Together, there is great hope.