#17: From Conservative Christianity to Learning To Feel Pleasure with Shae Court

From being stuck in her head, struggling to vocalize what she wanted, and sooooo much Good Christian Girl conditioning, to being able to FEEL, to know what her boundaries were, and feel pleasure. I spoke with my former client, Shae Court on her experience working with me, which included why having multiple splooshing orgasms was not what she really needed, she needed to be able to feel first. I hope you love this episode and it gives you a taste of what it's like working with me 1:1. In this episode we cover: Her conservative Christian upbringing and homeschooling Marrying her first sexual partner Why the biggest part of our work together was trusting herself On not being allowed to want or have wants in the first place Every woman our boundaries is never honoured Conditioning to be sweet and not cause a fuss Holding her boundaries in a swingers party She wanted juicy lush multiple orgasms like on the internet and what she got instead What can go wrong in neo tantra and get re-traumatized Staying with what is whole now They big differences between working with me and others The body is the vehicle through which we experience divinity Taking orgasm off the pedestal Using an exercise we do together: orienting Get your tickets to the last Soul Sex Circle of 2023 on December 11th-- sex positive women's circle: http://lucyrowett.com/soulcirclemonthly/ You can find Shae here: https://www.instagram.com/shaecourt/?hl=en Follow this podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0MdbEOJW9nXRqLsAMSTRAn?si=13d9a8abecfe4ac0 Follow this podcast on Apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-naked-unashamed-life/id1682478750 Want to connect more? For the shameless sexual confidence, pleasure and deep satisfaction you’ve been craving, head here: ⁠https://lucyrowett.com/⁠ Free PDF on how to confidently ask for what you want in bed: https://bit.ly/askforwhatyoureallywant Learn more about working together 1:1 here: http://lucyrowett.com/sex-intimacy-relationship-coaching/ Unlock your sexual happiness with Beducated. Get access to 100+ raw and honest courses on sex, led by the world’s top experts. You’ll find fresh new content every month. Get 25% off your annual subscription here, use the code LUCYROWETT25 at the checkout to get it: ⁠https://bit.ly/BeducatedLR25⁠ Social media links: IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lucylurowett⁠ TT: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/⁠ FB: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lucyrowettcsc⁠ LI: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/lucy-rowett-csc-cs-acs-9a301351/ Credits: Produced and Hosted by: Lucy Rowett (aka, moi!) Cover Art by: Lucy Rowett (a mixture of moi and Fran Richardson) Music by: Tom M at Filmstro (Not moi, I'm not that talented)