17: Initiating Sex -- Who goes first?

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Matt & Jenn discuss making the moves to make it happen — that anxiety-filled, over-thought, and over-done vulnerable moment when a one spouse propositions the other for sex. We'll tackle some questions like:  Who’s responsibility is it to initiate sex? How does one initiate sex? Is there a reliable go-to move or pick up line? And we’ll even offer some playful suggestions to help mix it up.Who is supposed to initiate sex? It doesn’t matter as long as you are both pursuing and connecting with the other in every way: spiritually, mentally, emotionally and physically. This requires ongoing vulnerable conversation.Pursuers, you should assume that initiating sex is going to be your responsibility most of the time. Be direct. Be realistic. Be solid.Responders, do what it takes to open your mind, heart, body and soul to the benefits of connecting in this important way with your beloved. Recognize what it would mean to your spouse for you to initiate something sexual once in a while.We referenced this interesting option for helping initiate sex:  LoveSync app Please send your comments, questions and suggestions to [email protected] Thanks for sharing, rating and subscribing! Download our free resource titled, What Does Sex Mean To My Spouse? at our website: www.intimatecovenant.com Cherishing, Matt & Jenn PS — If you are interested in bringing Matt & Jenn to your church or small group to speak about the beauty of God’s plan for marriage and sexuality, please contact us: [email protected] www.intimatecovenant.com Intimate Covenant | Matt & Jenn Schmidt Credits: Announcer — Daniel DeGarmo Music — Jonathan DowSupport the show