17. You're a Christian...Dealing with Conflict and Boundaries | What Are We Talking About? | Ben Lewis

Family conflict can drain your spirit, test your faith, and leave you wondering: Is it unchristian to step back? In this episode of What Are We Talking About?, Ben Lewis dives into the overlooked biblical wisdom behind boundaries, distance, and self-protection.This is not about revenge or giving up on people. It’s about choosing peace over perpetual warfare.Using scripture from Proverbs, Romans, 2 Timothy, and the teachings of Jesus, Ben explores when forgiveness is required — but access is not — and how to protect your spiritual and emotional health from destructive relationships. If you’ve ever been told to “just accept it” or had your faith used against you to tolerate toxic behavior, this episode offers clarity, courage, and practical guidance.You’ll learn:• What the Bible really says about avoiding conflict• How to set topic, time, and emotional boundaries• When “bad company corrupts good morals” applies to family• The meaning of shaking the dust off your feet• Why forgiveness doesn’t equal unlimited accessThis conversation is for anyone navigating toxic family dynamics, strained friendships, or faith-based guilt around protecting their peace.Forgive freely. Love wisely. Guard your spirit.Subscribe and share with someone who needs this message.Host: Ben LewisWebsite: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠428 Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Email: [email protected] Date: 02/05/2026