172. WE MARRIED THE SAME MAN

What happens when the man you married turns out to be living a double life? Deana and Lizzie both married the same man—at different times—and eventually discovered a pattern of deception, emotional abuse, manipulation, and overlapping relationships. But this story gets even crazier: after connecting and comparing notes, they tracked down another woman who was unknowingly dating the same man. In this episode, Josh and the gals get into the red flags they missed, why charm can hide bad character, how love bombing and manipulation actually work, and why even smart, self-aware people can find themselves questioning their own instincts. Because sometimes the biggest red flag isn't what someone does. It's how often you find yourself explaining it away.