174: ADHD, Homework, and Executive Function with Ann Dolin

In this episode of The Soaring Child Podcast, host Dana Kay sits down with Ann Dolin, an award-winning educator, author, and expert in ADHD, executive function, and academic coaching. Together, they unpack one of the most common and stressful challenges for families raising kids with ADHD—homework. With over three decades of experience helping children who think and learn differently, Ann shares practical, tested strategies to reduce homework battles, build executive function skills, and bring more calm to busy evenings. Dana Kay, a Board-Certified Health and Nutrition Practitioner and founder of the ADHD Thrive Institute, approaches this topic as both a professional and a parent who's been in the trenches. Whether your child procrastinates, feels overwhelmed by multi-step directions, or struggles to get started, you'll walk away with actionable advice you can use tonight to make homework time more peaceful and productive. Link Mentioned in the Show:  Educational Connections – https://ectutoring.com Book – Homework Made Simple: Tips, Tools, and Solutions for Stress-Free Homework Facebook – Educational Connections, Inc. | Alexandria VA Instagram – EC Virtual Tutoring & Coaching (@educationalconnections) YouTube – Ann Dolin Key Takeaways: [07:54] Practical tip: Break big assignments into smaller chunks and involve kids in deciding the order to build independence. [09:56] What executive function skills are and how weaknesses in these areas impact homework, focus, and emotions. [14:10] How to work collaboratively with teachers to modify homework and avoid nightly power struggles. [15:28] Why setting a homework start time is more effective than focusing only on the end time. [18:47] Using timers and the Pomodoro method to help kids with ADHD get started and stay on task. [21:05] Building confidence with specific positive feedback to shift mindset and motivation. [23:14] Stepping back and asking guiding questions instead of micromanaging homework. Memorable Moments: "It's not always about motivation. Sometimes it's about executive function." "Most kids don't want to do poorly. They just don't know how to start." "The number one thing that helps is structure and consistency." "Procrastination isn't laziness — it's often overwhelm." "Sometimes the best thing we can do is step back, not step in." "A checklist is like a GPS for the brain." "Kids with ADHD often need external reminders to manage time and tasks." "When parents micromanage, it can actually backfire." "Homework should never be a battle zone." "Parents are doing the best they can with the tools they have." How to Connect with Ann Dolin Website: https://ectutoring.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/educationalconnections/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EducationalConnections Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@annkdolin Dana Kay Resources: 🔗WEBSITES: https://adhdthriveinstitute.com/ https://dana-kay.com/ 👋SOCIALS: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ADHDThriveInstitute/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhdthriveinstitute/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ADHDThriveInstitute LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/adhd-thrive-institute/mycompany/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.ph/adhdthriveinstitute/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhd_thriveinstitute 📕INTERNATIONAL  BEST SELLING BOOK: Thriving with ADHD – https://adhdthriveinstitute.com/book/ 💻FREE MASTERCLASS Free Reduce ADHD Symptoms Naturally Masterclass - https://bit.ly/3GAbFQl ⭐COURSES & PROGRAMS ADHD Parenting Course – https://info.adhdthriveinstitute.com/parentingadhd ADHD Thrive Method 4 Kids Program – https://adhdthriveinstitute.com/packages/