174. Are disagreements part of everyday relationships?

Welcome to another episode of our late-night podcast for insomniacs. Sara runs on empty, and Anna's cat auditions for a part in Star Wars as she recovers. In this episode, we dive into the complexities of maintaining relationships, the art of asking the right questions, and how to handle disagreements healthily. We also touch on the delicate topic of going through a separation after a long-term relationship while still cohabitating. Join us as we explore practical advice and share personal anecdotes to help you navigate these challenging situations.   Love Desk: The art of asking, do you ask your partner questions about things you don't know? Most people think they are good listeners, but 97% only retain a tiny part of the information shared.    Hot Topic: Are disagreements part of everyday relationships? How does conflict show up for you in your relationship? Are you avoiding conflict, and is this happening anyway?  Conflict is normal, but the key is ensuring it is healthy. Artificial harmony and meanness are not healthy styles of conflict. Stay curious, explore both sides and let go of things that aren't important.    Question: "What advice do you have for a person going through a separation after 19 years? They have never experienced this because it is their only relationship. They feel like their world is falling apart but must stay roommates." Listen to the insights offered on setting boundaries, maintaining individual identity, and the importance of self-care during such a transition.   Tune in for a blend of humour, empathy, and practical advice designed to help you navigate the intricate dynamics of love and conflict.   Till next time!   Get in touch Geordie Lass & Doc Sass Email - [email protected] with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.    Sara Liddle Email: [email protected] Website: www.inflori.co.uk Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset   Anna Stratis Email: [email protected]  Website: www.coachdocanna.com