174. HOW TO BE CONFIDENT AS FUQ

Confidence isn't something you're born with — it's evidence you've collected. And you already have more of it than you think.This episode is the pep talk I gave a friend who couldn't see himself the way everyone else sees him. We're unpacking why imposter syndrome, not pitching, not selling and not showing up are all the same problem wearing different outfits — and the exact process I use to build confidence in a brand new situation by borrowing proof from the parts of my life where I already slay.Key Topics Covered:Why imposter syndrome, avoiding the pitch and not selling all come down to one thingThe "book the plane ticket" method for finding confidence you didn't know you hadHow to stop waiting for evidence and start creating itWhy avoiding hard things starves your future self of proofThe real reason most small businesses never break past $50KHow I built a six-figure process by selling it before I'd created itThe kindest gift you can give the version of you six months from nowTIMESTAMPS0:00:00 - Intro: The pep talk that became a podcast episode 0:00:47 - Imposter syndrome, pitching and selling are the same problem 0:02:30 - The plane ticket method: find where you already slay 0:04:19 - Why "I've never done it before" keeps you stuck forever 0:05:00 - Proof you can do hard things: the dental chair story 0:07:04 - Where you're already confident and don't even notice 0:08:13 - How I stay confident: trusting yourself to figure it out 0:09:57 - Avoiding hard things starves you of future evidence 0:11:39 - Why most small businesses never break past $50K 0:12:37 - Your action step: go first and collect the proofLINKS AND WORK WITH ME:Good In Business: https://www.professionalbabe.com/good-in-business/Hot Business Audit: https://hot-business.scoreapp.com/Business Bang: https://www.professionalbabe.com/business-bang/Give Good Email: https://www.professionalbabe.com/give-good-email/Spill your secrets (or ep requests, feedback, or praise to me) by sending me a text 💬Support the showIf you’re craving more, you can find me on Instagram @professionalbabe and make sure to subscribe to my email list which you can find at professionalbabe.com — word on the street is I give good email.