174: Why You Keep Having the Same Fight (You're Treating the Symptom, Not the Cause)

In this episode, Lilly breaks down why treating the symptoms of your relationship problems will never fix what’s actually going on, and what to do instead. In this episode, you’ll learn:* Why where you feel the pain in your relationship is not where it originated* The difference between treating symptoms and treating the root cause* How unprocessed experiences become rocks in your backpack* Why recurring fights with your wife are rarely about your wife* How early childhood wounds and old patterns show up in your current relationship* Why throwing away the relationship won’t fix the problem* What root cause relationship work actually looks likeBook a Call with Lilly: If you’re ready to unload the rocks from your backpack, book a call with Lilly and see if she can help you treat where the pain actually originated. Get the 3T Weekly Email: Sign up for Lilly’s weekly email: a truth, a thought, and a tactic delivered to your inbox every week. Get full access to Growth Over Easy at www.growthovereasy.com/subscribe