#176 - My Dog's Barking Is Destroying Me

Does your dog barking make you jump out of your skin? Or send you down a shame spiral? Or have your dog’s triggers become your triggers? You are very much not alone. In this episode, we flip the script, and instead of asking, “How do I help my reactive dog?” we ask, “How can I help me, the reactive human?” Join Emily and Ellen for a chat about when your dog’s (or bird’s, or donkey’s, or cat’s) noises don’t just annoy you, but send a startling jolt straight to your lizard brain. Because yes, vocalizations are normal, but finding harmony with your pet isn’t about suffering while they thrive. TLDL (too long, didn’t listen): 3 Key Takeaways 1️⃣ Stop the bleeding first – Start with your right-now plan. What’s one thing you can do to make barking less painful for you?2️⃣ Barking doesn’t automatically mean “over threshold” – We have to look at the whole picture and learn to observe body language with all our senses. 3️⃣ Find empathy for the reactivity – We can find tremendous empathy for reactive dogs. Let’s give ourselves the same grace.For the full episode show notes, including the resources mentioned in this episode, go here.Amazon Affiliate StorefrontFind products we recommend at the Pet Harmony Amazon Storefront.As an Amazon Associate, Pet Harmony earns from qualifying purchases.More from Pet HarmonyPet Parents: enrichment ideas and practical behavior tips📸 Instagram & Facebook: @petharmonytrainingPet Pros: relatable moments and support for your work with pets and their people📸 Instagram & TikTok: @petharmonypro📬 Sign up for our weekly newsletter: https://petharmonytraining.com/join/Subscribe & ReviewIf this episode resonated with you, please take a moment to subscribe and review. It helps more pet parents and pros find us. Thanks for being here! 💛Find some of Pet Harmony's ride or die brands, gear, and fitness equipment through our affiliate partner Paw Prosper. And yes, we promise we actually use this gear with our own pets. 💗Check out Blue-9, FitPaws, Help 'Em Up Harness, and more at http://petharmonytraining.com/fitnessAs an affiliate, we earn a small commission based on purchases from this link.