18 Supporting the Dying 06-May-2003

Lama Zopa Rinpoche discusses a book about the traditional Tibetan procedures for handling death. The book covers various aspects such as what to do at the time of death, how to transfer consciousness to a pure land, making offerings to lamas, and conducting astrological rituals. It also outlines the procedures for taking the body out, making offerings to monasteries, and caring for the deceased during the first few weeks and up to the 49th day. Even if someone is unable to recite prayers during their final moments, others can recite on their behalf while they meditate. It is important to not develop attachment during death to avoid the negative consequences of attachment, such as experiencing suffering in the hell realm. A lam-rim text serves as protection as it embodies the wisdom of Manjushri and encompasses all the teachings of Buddha. Any teaching of Lama Tsongkhapa is considered Manjushri's teaching and having the Lam Rim Chenmo text next to a person during their death eliminates the need for powa, a practice of transferring consciousness. Keeping the text in one's room, using it for daily practice, or placing it on the altar can also be beneficial in the moment of death.Rinpoche suggests avoiding having enemies or individuals to whom one is strongly attached to be present at the time of death, as their presence can disturb the dying person's mind. Maintaining a peaceful and virtuous state of mind during the dying process is important, as it determines the quality of one's next rebirth. It is the responsibility of those around the dying person to create a supportive environment and help generate virtuous thoughts. It is important to die with virtuous thoughts, compassion and concern for others who are also facing death. Cultivating a wish to free all sentient beings from the suffering of death can help make the process of dying meaningful and beneficial for oneself and others.We need to adapt the teachings according to the person's understanding and background. Individuals who have different religious beliefs or are non-believers can focus on developing compassion, loving-kindness, or devotion to a higher power such as God, while imbuing the qualities of the Buddha within that concept.This teaching was given at Institut Vajra Yogini, France as part of a Four Kadampa Deities Retreat from April 18-May 11, 2003. You can see all the teachings from this retreat here: https://fpmt.org/media/streaming/teachings-of-lama-zopa-rinpoche/4-kadam-deities-2003/"