180. The Real Reason Diets + Relationships Felt So Hard

For those of us who are (or have been):  emotional eaters,  in emotionally abusive or neglectful relationships,  or struggled with your self-worth,  Food, your weight, and people were never the real issues.  *The key problem was the identity you were forced to develop in order to survive.* You learned to abandon your own needs to stay safe, loved, accepted, or chosen. One of the most profound questions we can ask is:  “Who was I before the world told me who to be?”   This is how we get to the deeper layers driving your emotional eating, attracting emotionally abusive or neglectful people, and ultimately keeping you stuck in the same patterns year after year.  Ready to break free?  Keep listening and I’ll show you how.  When you’re ready to come work with me and reclaim your life, your vision, your voice, and your power, schedule your free consultation at www.bodyyoucrave.com/schedule.  This is your one precious life.  Let’s make it count. Chapters (00:00:02) - Hungry for Love(00:00:26) - Why Relationships and Diets feel so hard(00:05:43) - Weight Loss and Codependency(00:08:59) - How To Get Out Of A Toxic Relationship(00:13:02) - How codependency affects our nervous system(00:14:26) - How to Get Out of Toxic Relationships(00:18:48) - How To Cultivate a Perfect Body With Restriction(00:21:50) - Why Weight Loss Feels So Hard(00:25:54) - How to Love Yourself Now(00:32:08) - Don't Let Your Child Struggle(00:34:41) - How to Heal Your Self-Worth(00:41:24) - How To Become The Girl Of Your Dreams(00:44:02) - How to Reclaim Your Identity(00:49:53) - How to Heal Your Relationships With Food, Alcohol(00:51:15) - Break the Cycle