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Aug 22, 2024 38 min

#1802 - The Identity Problem…

from Next Level University Hosted by Kevin Palmieri and Alan Lazaros

Have you ever wondered if you need to be something before you can become it? Today, Kevin and Alan talk about the challenges of identity and achievement. They explore the critical differences between identifying as something versus doing the actions required to become that thing. Whether you're someone who needs to achieve before identifying as an achiever or someone who naturally embodies a role before stepping into it, this episode offers valuable insights into how these approaches impact personal growth and public perception. Links mentioned: Subscribe & follow NLU: https://www.buzzsprout.com/742955/share Alan’s Coaching: [email protected] ______________________ NLU is not just a podcast; it’s a gateway to a wealth of resources designed to help you achieve your goals and dreams. From our Next Level Dreamliner to our Group Coaching, we offer a variety of tools and communities to support your personal development journey. For more information, please check out our website at the link below. 👇 Website 💻 http://www.nextleveluniverse.com _______________________ Any of these communities or resources are FREE to join and consume Next Level Nation - https://www.facebook.com/groups/459320958216700 Next Level 5 To Thrive (free course) - ​​https://bit.ly/3xffver Next Level U Book Club - https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/next-level-book-club/ Next Level Monthly Meet-up: https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/monthly-meetups/ _______________________ We love connecting with you guys! Reach out on Instagram, Facebook, or via email. We’re here to support you in your personal and professional development journey. Instagram 📷 Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/ Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/ Facebook ✍ Alan: https://www.facebook.com/alan.lazaros Kevin: https://www.facebook.com/kevin.palmieri.90/ Email 💬 [email protected] [email protected] LinkedIn ✍ Kevin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-palmieri-5b7736160/ Alan: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanlazarosllc/ _______________________ Show notes: (1:58) Believing in yourself and identifying as an achiever (5:55) Public criticism and the fear of being seen as a failure (12:02) Contextual identity (17:20) The balance between public perception and self-identity (20:31) At NLU, we want you to win! So, we're giving tools and resources to ensure your success. Join our Monthly Meet-up every first Thursday of the month at 5 PM. https://bit.ly/3yL3Jfq (22:10) Faking it (28:16) The impact of core wounds (35:00) Have more certainty (37:01) Outro Send a text to Kevin and Alan! 🎙️ Hosted by Kevin Palmieri and Alan Lazaros Next Level University is a top-ranked daily podcast for dream chasers and self-improvement lovers. With over 2,100 episodes, we help you level up in life, love, health, and wealth one day at a time. Subscribe for real, honest, no-fluff growth every single day.

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Have you ever wondered if you need to be something before you can become it? Today, Kevin and Alan talk about the challenges of identity and achievement. They explore the critical differences between identifying as something versus doing the actions required to become that thing. Whether you're someone who needs to achieve before identifying as an achiever or someone who naturally embodies a role before stepping into it, this episode offers valuable insights into how these approaches impact p...

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  1. 1:58 Believing in yourself and identifying as an achiever
  2. 5:55 Public criticism and the fear of being seen as a failure
  3. 12:00 Contextual identity
  4. 17:20 The balance between public perception and self-identity
  5. 20:31 At NLU, we want you to win! So, we're giving tools and resources to ensure your success. Join our Monthly Meet-up every first Thursday of the month at 5 PM.
  6. 22:10 Faking it
  7. 28:15 The impact of core wounds
  8. 35:00 Have more certainty
  9. 37:00 Outro

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