182: Guys Gone Deep: Group BDSM Scenes, Opening Up, and the Lincoln Tunnel Story with Mister A

This week, Elle and Vee sit down with Mr. A for an unfiltered look at how his and Vee’s relationship evolved from being monogamish into group BDSM scenes, couple swapping, and separate experiences. They break down his detailed scene-negotiation process, including desires, limits, safe words, triggers, aftercare, and how every person, even the voyeur or cuck, stays included. Vee opens up about jealousy, emotional activation, reconnection rituals, and why feeling safe matters more than pretending non-monogamy is effortless. Then the conversation takes a completely unhinged turn with a Lincoln Tunnel emergency that somehow becomes kinky, hilarious, and weirdly romantic.00:00Introduction to BDSM negotiation and self-discovery02:06Evolution of the relationship and exploring boundaries03:59Scenes with multiple partners and dynamic roles06:52Negotiation questions and building anticipation10:08Handling fears, desires, and boundaries15:05The importance of communication and group chats20:03Scene construction and planning28:07The emotional and physical aspects of BDSM scenes35:04Voyeurism, watching, and emotional safety42:58Handling jealousy and non-monogamy49:51Community, connection, and personal growth01:00:05Final thoughts and advice for beginners______________🔥 Beducated: The Sex Ed You Wish You’d Had - Online Classes 💦 Risk-free with a 14-day money-back guarantee. 👉 Sign up here --> Beducated.com or here --> https://beduc.at/pd2631-gonedeepSupport the show______How to Support the Show: 💰 Donate Here 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop  — wear your kinks proudly.🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials.🪄 WAANDS™:  Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com  IG: @wlthegame🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket  IG: @naughtydisco💌 Contact: [email protected]© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.