182. I Trained My Parents To Love Me

NEW BLOG POST ALERT! Mastering Boundaries: 10 Powerful and Effective StrategiesIn a family already blessed with two daughters, Amy's arrival was accompanied by a strong desire from her traditional Chinese father to have a son, to carry on the family name. This early expectation of being "supposed to be a boy" cast a long shadow over Amy's life. She found herself caught in a confusing dance, trying to fulfil her father's wishes whilst also navigating cultural expectations of being a "good Chinese girl”. As Amy matured, the pressure of conforming to these conflicting "should's" intensified. Her parents held high expectations, and Amy struggled with a growing sense of disconnection from them. Her mother and father never expressed love or physical connection. Determined to break free from the suffocating grip of societal and familial expectations, Amy embarked on a journey of self-discovery. She realised it was time to connect with her parents on a deeper level, to hear their stories, and to teach them how to love her in a way that truly mattered. Amy's story is a testament to the power of resilience and self-empowerment. Join us as we delve into Amy's journey, her quest to reshape her identity, and her profound realisation that sometimes, it's up to us to guide our loved ones toward understanding and love.Amy is the author of UNFINISHED BUSINESS: Breaking Down The Great Wall Between Adult Children and Immigrant Parents and you can find her coaching offerings HEREIf you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to [email protected]. I would love to connect with you.   Go to my blog howmyparentsraisedme.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.